I really had a great weekend.
On Thursday of last week I received a letter from the IND (the immigration and naturalisation service of the Netherlands). I've been given the green light for my new residence permit! I had already applied for it, but the government makes you wait, and wait, and wait for all things officially Dutch, as a foreigner. This has been a year in the making people! And knowing this only made my weekend even better.
I've sort of felt as is my life has been in the hands of the Dutch government for the past year... and that's just not a good feeling. For the first time, in a long time – I have absolutely no worries. I'm healthy, happy and financially secure. Yay!
I went to an expat blogger-meet-up on friday night, in the city center. It was really enjoyable. I didn't have any american/
ommonwealth friends in amsterdam (that was until I met amanda, from
Amanda Blog and Kiss, for coffee a few weeks ago – hey Amanda!). And it was really great to hear everyone's stories of how they arrived in holland, how they find all things dutch, if they speak Dutch, etc... but was almost more fun was the fact they everyone sort of knew at least a bit of background info about each other from reading about each others lives. It was a really fun Friday. We sort of all had to spill how big of stalkers/research-er's we really are.
One person confessed they had read all of one particular blog's archives. I'm still working to that point. But a few are close.
My life is quite beautiful, and I sometimes forget this... as everyday I’m surrounded by the beauty of this every so disgustingly charming city. And I absolutely love it. I really feel at home here in Amsterdam. I told someone at the blogger meet-up that I want to live here forever. I really do. And even if I don’t (live here forever), there’s absolutely nothing wrong with thinking that right now - I think my life would falter if I thought differently.
I didn’t come to Amsterdam for anyone but myself. And what a nice feeling that is.
Most all of my friends are Dutch. I’m not sure if this happened consciously on my part – or not. But that’s ok. And has only served to further immerse me into Dutch culture more than I could have ever hoped or wished for.
Two Dutchies have recently taken a exit from my life. It's a really strange feeling to not know when or even if someone will ever be a part of my your life again. But then again, life is always in your hands – and you can change the course of it to match how you see fit. One of them was a great friend. I miss him sometimes. But when disagreements and heated words get thrown around on the shores of Italy. There's only one thing to do... take the next train to AMS asap. The other, was someone who means more to me than I can put in words. I could try, but I might be writing all day. And I don't really need to, the words are in my head, and at the end of the day they're only for me. But that being said, I do think it's amazing how quickly people come into our lives – and then sometimes leave, but sometimes they stay... And sometimes, life throws the most unexpected of situations at you, which shake up your life completely.
Which only brings even more unexpected situations. Like meeting 15 bloggers from (quite literally) around the world at a tiny little bar in Amsterdam on a slightly rainy Friday autumn evening. Then, I went out with Amanda again on Saturday night. It was a really great time! We went to
Suzy Wongs on Saturday, among other bars- and what a nice feeling it was just to sit in a bar without wood paneling on the walls. I felt like I was back in NYC – sipping cocktails.
I met some really great people, both nights this weekend. One girl I met had (quite literally-) just arrived in AMS from Canada, where she now lives (this was saturday; non blogger). This girl had lived everywhere – though originally from Australia. Sometimes I forget that I too have lived everywhere (San Francisco, NYC, Düsseldorf, Copenhagen, Amsterdam...). Anyways, alcohol always seems to let these little one line confessions slip between random people… And I couldn’t help but take note of one she said to me, at one rather loud and chaotic point in the evening…
It was something along the lines of: ‘I just can’t go back, to Australia’.
The strange thing was there wasn’t anything in this quick glimpse into her life that made it seem as if anything was too terribly wrong or uncomfortable with the situation in her home country.
It was more one of those… ‘If I went back to Aussie-land, I just don’t know…’
One of those open-ended sentences…
I feel the same about the US. I just don’t want to be there right now. The country has some major shit it needs to sort out… and honestly-who knows if I’ll ever move back. Though I can’t say I see it happening anytime in the next few years.
Everything Dutch makes me smile, as does almost everything about my life here in NL. I’m hard-core researching places to take Dutch lessons these days – and if anyone has any favorable experience with a certain Dutch Lessons establishment, please shoot me an email.
He can be found
here, for all you Amsterdam-
ers.
And this is the accompanying text, in both Dutch and English, describing the event – and cleverly plastered on the base of each elephant:
Yes people, this is the language I'm trying to learn. Why? Beats me.
No one made me move to Holland. And no one is making me learn Dutch. I just want to.
As I told someone at the blogger-meet-up: I imagine the real reason I'm in Holland right now is simply: the US would just be too damn boring. My life could easily include a car, large apartment, and flat screen TV– friends who speak English, (all this, if I talked to the right people in the US and landed the right job that is; which I'm convinced I could do – especially after living here on my own). But I simply wanted to challenge myself. So I left.
I first stepped foot on European soil in July 2007. And after that- how could I ever live in the US again? After knowing all this history and culture is just an eight hour plane right away... Yesterday I rearranged my apartment; as sometimes I do that when I’m just sick of looking at all my things/stuff lay in the same spot for weeks and weeks. And it is just that – unnecessary baggage. I’m so happy that before I left America-land last year, I shoved my life in two suitcases (please read: rid myself of all my excess material possessions I do not need, that do not make me happy by having. I feel so free sometimes because of this), hopped the Atlantic and bunked down in Europe to see where life takes me.
So far it’s been one hell of a time. Which I imagine can only get better from here.
I have this book that I bought at the Kringloopwinkel a few months ago. It’s called ‘
The Glory of Amsterdam’. It’s one of those books that was published in the late 70s, 74' to be exact; certainly before the advent of InDesign or Photoshop, that’s for sure. It cost two Euros, but in my mind it’s priceless.
A few sentences from the introductory essay stick out in my mind... But I must say; the whole essay weaves the magic of the canals, gabled houses and all things Dutch – into some of the most inspiring words that create the most vivid imagery inside my head whenever I read it. Which is quite often. I can’t even begin to imagine what Amsterdam must have been like in the 17th or 18th centuires, but sometimes I like to pretend I can.
One of the sentences clearly sticks out in my mind- quite vividly. It reads, ‘When walking through the center of Amsterdam, one must not forget that the city was build by some of the world’s richest people.’
I think that’s simply amazing. And I would venture to say that all Amsterdam-er’s (myself included) have forgotten just how spectacular this city truly is at some point. No other European capital can compare. Honest.
I’ve been spending large amounts of time cycling through the Jordaan these days. It takes me fiveminutes to walk there form my house; two if I cycle. It’s amazing how small the area of the city really is – and how each time I’m there, I always seem to stumble across a new area I’ve never laid eyes on. One street simply takes my breath away.
While cycling South-East down
Tichelstraat – especially at sunset, and as you approach Prinsengracht – the tower of Westerkerk perfectly lines up in-between the rows of gabled houses on either side of the street. And it’s simply stunning.
Just another one of the 3 million or so reason I love this city. Around every corner is a new surprise, a stunning view – or simply an empty bench, next to an empty canal, just waiting for someone to sit down and watch the show that is called life slowly pass you by…
Heather, a Canadian in Amsterdam, from over at
Life Abroad, recently asked me to send her a list of my 10 favorite aspects of this city...
Here's the introductory sentence she wrote about me:
John, from the popular blog John Does Amsterdam, recently shared with me why he loves his newly-adopted city. His blog is one of my favourites, as he really captures the essence of the city and seems to have a continual love affair with all things Amsterdam. Here’s what he had to say about life in this remarkable city.
How much fun is that!? She even called my blog popular!
1- The best hot and frothy cappuccinos, and the little cookies that come with them
2- My bike. It's always within a 500 meter radius of me.
4- The fact that there are so many beaches close by; each a 20 minute train ride from my house.
5- Vondelpark & Westerpark
6- Getting lost in the labyrinth like streets of the Jordaan.
7- Hopping on my bike; blanket, book and ipod in bag- with nowhere to go.
8- The longest summer nights I've ever experienced.
9- The most extremes of architecture ever collected in one city (in my opinion).
10- The fact that all of Europe is just out my front door; easily accessible by plane or train.
Heather recently sent me her list- watch out for it on my blog soon.
You can be anyone you want in Amsterdam – and I love that aspect of my city.
Here’s who was at the blogger meet-up on Friday. Give their blogs a click – they’re all a great reads.
And I hope to see them all again, someday soon:
Anita from Greetings from Holland
Andy from Andy in Amsterdam
Lizzy from Lizzy Goes Dutch
Amanda from Amanda Blog & Kiss